Just Because You're Good at One Thing Doesn't Mean You're Good at Another
I do this exercise every time I speak at a PMI chapter or
project management conference.
I get up on stage and say, "Everybody who's a
practicing project manager right now, raise your hand."
Hands go up across the room. Hundreds of them.
"Okay, keep them up. Keep them up," I say.
"Now—who came out of college wanting to be a project
manager?"
And I watch every hand in the room drop.
Except for three or four people. Maybe.
That right there? That's the Halo Effect.
We were all good at something else first. I started as a
technical engineer. You probably started as a developer, analyst, designer,
accountant, or subject matter expert in your domain.
We didn't set out to be project managers. We fell into it
because someone looked at us one day and said, "You're really good at [X].
You should lead the team."
And here's the problem: Being really good at [X]
doesn't automatically make you good at leading people who do [X].
But organizations make this assumption all the time. It's
called the Halo Effect—the cognitive bias that says if you're good
at one thing, we assume you'll be good at something else.
And it's killing project success rates.
What Is the Halo Effect (And Why It Matters for PMs)
The Halo Effect is simple: Just because you're
excellent at something doesn't mean you'll be excellent at something else.
But we promote like it does.
We take our best engineer and make them a project manager.
We take our best project manager and make them a PMO leader. We take our top
salesperson and make them a sales manager.
And then we wonder why they struggle.
Here's why: These are completely different skill
sets.
Let me show you.
Great Engineer vs. Great PM: The Skill Mismatch
What makes a great engineer:
- Deep
focus and technical mastery
- Love
of solving hard, complex problems
- Delivering
working code or product
- Individual
contribution and craftsmanship
What makes a great PM:
- Broad
coordination across stakeholders
- Fluency
in navigating ambiguity
- Managing
energy, decisions, and people dynamics
- Influence
without authority
See the disconnect?
A great engineer wants to solve the problem
themselves. A great PM needs to orchestrate others to
solve the problem.
So what happens? The newly promoted PM tries to apply
engineering rigor to people problems. They delegate, get frustrated when it's
not done "right," and then just do it themselves.
They burn out trying to do everyone else's job.
Great PM vs. Great PMO Leader: Another Mismatch
Here's another one I see all the time: We take our best
project manager and promote them to PMO manager.
And they crash.
Why? Because these are also totally different skill sets.
I wrote a blog post years ago called "The
Kindergartner's Guide to PMO," and the key insight was this:
A project manager has been taught to color inside the
lines.
A PMO manager has to establish the lines that everyone
else colors in.
One role is about controlling a project within
constraints. The other is about negotiating ambiguity and setting
organizational standards.
Totally. Different. Skills.
And here's where I see it go wrong: The newly promoted PMO
manager thinks, "I was successful doing it this way, so
everyone should do it this way."
But that's not leadership. That's replication.
When I ran a PMO, I was very intentional about not forcing
my way onto my team. I'd say, "Here's what we need to
accomplish. You figure out how you want to do it."
You need meeting notes? Great. Do it in Word, dictate it,
put it in bullet points in an email—I don't care. As long as we have clear,
actionable notes, you do it your way.
That's how you build a high-performing team. You set the
standard, not the process.
My Uncomfortable Truth About Being a PMO Leader
Let me tell you a story I don't share often.
When I ran a PMO, I found out I'm not a very good HR
manager. At least not in the corporate sense.
Here's what happened:
We were a brand new PMO. Our goal was to hit 60% of our
milestone and production dates. Industry standard at the time was around 30%.
We hit 99% in our first year.
Everybody crushed it. Not just met expectations—exceeded them.
Our sponsors were thrilled. Our teams were energized. It was one of those rare
moments where everything just clicked.
So when it came time for annual evaluations, I gave everyone
fives.
HR came to me and said, "You can't do that."
"Why not?" I asked. "That's what
happened."
"Someone has to fall below your expectations,"
they said. "Most people can meet expectations. Maybe one person can
exceed. But you can't give everyone fives."
I thought that was the dumbest thing I'd ever heard.
I pushed back. And then they said the line that killed me:
"If you don't do this, then the problem is your
expectations."
I looked at them and said, "Or it's yours."
They didn't like that.
I said, "You want me to forcibly tell someone they're
not doing their job—or just barely meeting it—when what we're actually doing
is exceeding every possible expectation and building leaders?"
"I'm not doing that."
So no—I'm not a good HR manager in the corporate sense. But
I am a good people leader. And I had an incredible HR partner
in Carrie Blaise (still one of my best friends) who taught me
something invaluable:
Preparation is everything.
Carrie would come into our monthly one-on-ones with a
bullet-point list of things he was concerned about, things he was proud of,
observations he'd made. The level of detail he could hold onto and bring into
coaching conversations was phenomenal.
And I learned: If I want to coach well, I need to prepare
well.
That's where AI comes in.
AI as Your Coaching Preparation Partner
Here's what most people miss about AI: It's not just for
typing emails or generating status reports.
AI is a thinking partner for coaching.
I use AI now to help me prepare for coaching conversations.
I ask it to:
- Assess
skill gaps objectively
- Build
development plans for struggling PMs
- Surface
blind spots I might be missing
- Frame
hard conversations with empathy
I even use it for my own work. I've got a new methodology
I'm developing, and I've had AI:
- Do
deep research on competing frameworks
- Ask
me 30-40 clarifying questions to refine my thinking
- Look
for holes in my logic
- Make
sure I'm not accidentally copying something I read years ago
AI runs research in the background while I do the
high-value work.
And that's what today's episode is about: Using AI to help
you become a better coach, a better leader, and a more objective evaluator of
talent.
Three Prompts to Fight the Halo Effect
I'm going to walk you through three prompts I use to assess
PM talent, build development plans, and create competency frameworks.
I ran all three live in ChatGPT and Claude. And
interestingly, ChatGPT followed my Socratic prompting instructions
better this time, while Claude kept wanting to skip ahead.
Just goes to show—you've got to experiment with multiple
tools. What works best changes depending on the task.
Prompt 1: PM Skills Gap Analysis
This is your non-negotiable experiment for this episode. I
want you to run this on yourself—or on a PM on your team.
Here's what it does:
- Identifies
the 8-10 core PM competencies needed for a role
- Assesses
which competencies the PM likely excels at
- Surfaces
growth areas and skill gaps
- Provides
a 90-day development plan
What happened when I ran it:
ChatGPT asked me great clarifying questions:
- What
authority do you formally have as a PM? Can you approve scope changes or
push back on the sponsor?
- How
is success measured for you on this project?
- What's
the sponsor's level of PM maturity?
Then it gave me competencies like:
- Scope
and change management
- Stakeholder
management
- Strategic
communication
- Risk
anticipation
- Team
energy management
And a 90-day plan broken into:
- Month
1: Shadow a senior PM on stakeholder conversations, practice
framing scope changes
- Month
2: Lead a retrospective, facilitate a decision architecture
session
- Month
3: Present a project health diagnostic to leadership
That's actionable coaching.
Claude, on the other hand, skipped my questions and went
straight to the assessment. It said:
"Given your background and the context I already have
on this project, I have enough to give you a substantive assessment without
asking you to repeat yourself."
Not what I wanted. I wanted it to ask me
questions because that's where the thinking happens.
But you know what? Claude's assessment was still good. Just
a reminder—these tools have personalities. Experiment and find what works.
Prompt 2: Halo Effect Audit
This one's for diagnosing whether your organization is
suffering from Halo Effect bias in PM hiring and promotion.
What it surfaces:
- What
skills you tend to prioritize (hint: probably technical ones)
- What
critical PM skills you're overlooking
- Evidence
that you're promoting the wrong people
- How to
change your selection criteria
- Interview
questions that reveal actual PM competencies
What ChatGPT told me:
"Your pattern is clear. You prioritize deep product
knowledge, technical credibility, system architecture understanding, and
individual performance reputation. The implicit belief appears to be: The
best engineer will become the best PM."
Ouch. But true.
It then said:
"In a 200-person software company, PM success depends
heavily on: stakeholder boundary-setting, scope governance, executive
communication, strategic framing, conflict navigation, cross-functional
influence without authority, and change containment."
None of which have anything to do with being a great
engineer.
Then it gave me interview questions that would actually
reveal PM competencies:
- "You
need to tell your executive sponsor the project will be three weeks late.
Write the first three sentences of that email right now."
- "How
do you prevent scope creep when priorities change weekly?"
- "Explain
this technical roadmap to a non-technical executive in two minutes."
These questions don't test technical knowledge. They
test influence, framing, and communication under pressure.
That's what separates good PMs from great ones.
Prompt 3: PM Competency Framework Builder
This one's for PMO leaders or anyone building career paths
for PMs.
What it creates:
- 8-12
core PM competencies tailored to your org
- Observable
behaviors at "developing," "proficient," and
"expert" levels
- Which
competencies matter most for junior vs. senior PMs
- How
to assess competencies in hiring/promotion
- Development
resources to support growth
What I loved from the output:
It gave me a competency matrix like this:
Strategic Alignment / Executive Communication
- Developing: Shares
updates focused on tasks, struggles to translate technical details
- Proficient: Frames
updates in terms of outcomes, timelines, and risks; pre-aligns executives
before major decisions
- Expert: Shapes
priorities before execution begins; anticipates executive concerns and
addresses them early; reduces rework caused by shifting direction
That's a promotion rubric right there.
If you're a new PMO manager and someone just asked you to
define PM1, PM2, and PM3 levels—this prompt will give you 80% of the framework
in 10 minutes.
Then you customize it for your org.
Your Non-Negotiable Experiment This Week
Run the PM Skills Gap Analysis (Prompt 1)
on yourself or a PM on your team.
Be honest. Where do you think you're strong? Where do you
think you're weak?
Let AI ask you clarifying questions. Let it surface blind
spots.
Then identify the top two gaps and one
concrete action to address each.
Here's what I want you to notice:
- Were
the gaps what you expected, or did AI surface something you weren't
anticipating?
- Did
it reveal any blind spots you'd been avoiding?
- How
does having a structured 90-day development plan change the conversation?
Because here's the truth: Most PMs never get
objective feedback. They get vague performance reviews and assumptions
based on whether their last project shipped on time.
AI can give you the structured, evidence-based assessment
most organizations never provide.
The Takeaway
The Halo Effect is real. And it's why so many great
engineers fail as PMs, and why so many great PMs fail as PMO leaders.
Being good at one thing doesn't automatically make you
good at another.
We need objective competency frameworks. We need to assess
the actual skills that make PMs successful—not just assume
technical mastery translates to people leadership.
And we need AI to help us do it objectively, without bias,
without politics, and without the uncomfortable truth that maybe we've been
promoting the wrong people for years.
So run that skills gap analysis. Be honest. Surface the
blind spots.
Because the best leaders aren't the ones who were always
great. They're the ones who were willing to see where they weren't—and did
something about it.
Next time: People skills vs. domain
expertise—which one actually matters for project managers? (Spoiler: It's not
what you think.)
Want these prompts ready to copy/paste? See below!
If you would like to see the podcast live, check out this link: https://youtu.be/-9CvnXoPsFs
Now go find your blind spots. Your team is counting on you.
— Rick A. Morris
The Prompts (Copy/Paste Ready)
Prompt 1 - PM Skills Gap Analysis
You are a senior project management coach and assessor.
First, ask me 3–5 questions about the PM's background,
current role, challenges they're facing, and what success looks like in their
context.
Then provide an assessment answering:
- What
are the 8–10 core PM competencies needed for this role?
- Based
on what I've shared, which competencies does this PM likely excel at?
- Which
competencies are likely gaps or growth areas?
- What
specific behaviors or outcomes would indicate strength or weakness in each
gap area?
- What
is a 90-day development plan to address the top 2–3 gaps?
PM background: [Add your background]
Prompt 2 - Halo Effect Audit
You are an organizational psychologist specializing in team
composition and role fit.
Ask me 2–3 questions about how PMs are selected and promoted
in my organization.
Then help me analyze our hiring/promotion patterns by
answering:
- What
skills or background do we tend to prioritize when selecting PMs?
- What
skills critical to PM success might we be overlooking?
- What
evidence would indicate we're suffering from halo effect in PM selection?
- How
should we change our PM selection criteria to reduce halo effect bias?
- What
interview questions or assessments would reveal true PM competencies?
Organization context: [Add Organization Context]
Prompt 3 - PM Competency Framework
You are a PMO director building a competency framework.
First, ask me 3–4 questions about our project types,
organizational culture, and what "great PM performance" looks like
here.
Then create a PM competency framework answering:
- What
are the 8–12 core PM competencies for our context?
- For
each competency, what does "developing," "proficient,"
and "expert" look like in observable behaviors?
- Which
competencies are most critical for new PMs vs. senior PMs?
- How
should we assess these competencies in hiring and promotion decisions?
- What
development resources (training, coaching, mentoring) support growth in
each area?
Organizational context: [Add Organizational Context]
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